I Am My Rescue!

I was enlightened and touch by Lisa Nichols’s video clip on Steve Harvey’s show.

Through the years, I have been at rock bottom so many time and it was that decision Lisa mentioned that makes me continues to work hard towards my dream. I am glad to say that I am about to reach a milestone in my life that I have been dreaming about achieving it for so long. The journey has been long, fill with many challenges and struggles, however; I never give up pursuing something that I have the desire for it.

Let Lisa Nichols’ words inspire you to rescue yourself. Remember that while you are uplifting others, don’t forget to uplift yourself along the way to success and greatness.


THOUGHT: Txhov Siab, Txov Plawv

Thought of the moment:

Kuv muaj kev nyuaj siab, tu siab, chim siab, mob siab, kho siab los koj tsis pom tsis paub; tsis txawj hais ib lo lus zoo los txhawb kuv lub dag lub zog. Koj muaj kev nyuaj siab, tu siab, chim siab, mob siab, kho siab los kuv tsis pom tsis paub. Kuv los tsis txawj hais ib lo lus zoo los txhawb koj lub dag lub zoo. Tsis muaj ib tug uas yuav los paub txog yus txoj kev txom nyem ntawm yus kheej li. Tsis muaj ib tug uas yus tau khiav khwj khuav mus saib es piav kuv txoj kev ntxhov siab ntxhov plaws rau? Peb ua tib neeg nyob, ua cas es nyuaj ua luaj?

Lam zoo li tej ntwv cua es ya ib lub hav dhau mus rau ib lub rooj, tsis nco qab txog txoj kev ua neej, kev xav, kev ntshaw thiab txoj niag kev nrhiav noj nrhiav haus, tsis nco txoj niag kev txhov siab txhov plawv li lawm os…

23 Things Every Woman Should Stop Doing

One of the many things I enjoy blogging about is keeping interesting stuff as a blog for self-reminder, later down the road to reflect on or to read it again.

Below you will find me quoted an article from “Huff Post Women;” talking about the important stuffs we women needs to stop doing. I find the article to be refreshing and a self-care reminder to myself. I exceed some of the listed pointers but still working on some; such as learning to say No and stop saying yes to everything or every one; especially knowing that I have very limited time to do other stuff for other people or with them.

It’s good for the soul…Happy Reading!

23 Things Every Woman Should Stop Doing

It is conventional wisdom that we’re our own worst enemies and despite the cliche, the idea rings true. We often drive ourselves insane striving for perfection in our experiences, relationships and selves, and honestly it just becomes exhausting. So here at HuffPost Women we’re issuing a challenge to ourselves — and other women — to stop doing these 23 things. (Of course it’s all easier said than done, but to employ another cliche, if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.)

1. Apologizing all the time. Research has shown that women actually do say “sorry” more often than men. We’re all for taking responsibility when you make a mistake — but constantly apologizing for having your waiter split the check or asking a date to hang out on a different night or telling a friend about your problems, does more harm than good. There’s no need to qualify everything you do. Own your preferences and decisions.

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Center of the Universe

“I start to realize that this man has built himself a life. He has hobbies, real hobbies like cross-country skiing, hiking, reading, video games and more. He’s not afraid to do things by himself either. He has an important job and works hard at it. He’s busy. That’s why he’s not clinging to me. He has things to occupy his mind and time and has had them for years. I’m welcome to join him in these activities too, I notice. But I will never be the center of his universe. I quietly delete my online dating profile so I can’t spy on him anymore.

This guy never asks me to change my plans to do something with him instead. He actually changes his plans on occasion and joins me on my plans instead. I’m finally getting comfortable with myself and doing things on my own. I go on hikes with a local club; I meet up with girlfriends; I go to my exercise classes; I work late when I need to; I get a “Little Sister;” I invite neighbors over for drinks; I make moves to start a friendship with a woman I’ve known a couple of years and who I think is cool; I start thinking a lot about what I want out of life and my future. Not my future with a man but MY future. I’m building a life for myself for the first time in 44 years.

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Happy End of May 2012

Hello world,

It’s been a while since I blog in here. I hope everyone is doing well and taking good care of your beautiful self. Self-care is very important so stay healthy and eat good foods.

A lots of things has happen since I last blog and has been doing many activity as well. I hope to blog about it soon and share pic with my readers.

Until we meet again in another blog, let me end this blog with a quote for the day.

“Positive thinking is the base for a foundation of happiness within a person’s life. Positive thinking is often mistaken for luck. The right attitude invites the right opportunities. Live every moment, love every day, cause before you know it, precious time slips away. When something bad happens you have three choices. You can either let it define you, let it destroy you or you can let it strengthen you. Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you’ll start having positive results.” -SQ

(got the quote from ‘Positive Inspirational Qutoes’ facebook page, post on May 10, 2012 on their wall.)