What Men Want: 7 Traits

I love reading article at Elite Daily. And this is one of the many good article I read. Just reblogging as a reminder to myself…something to keep in mind when putting myself out there for a potential guy. 🙂

For years, we’ve talked about finding the right woman — someone we can rides the waves of life with, who will stand by our side for better or for worse.

As a man, committing to The One is among the most important decisions we make in life; some may even argue it is the most important.

The woman we decide to share our world with is the one who will mother our children, help us plan life, pick us up when we’re down and make us better men than we are right now.

But, what does the right woman look like in our eyes?

For years, women have been sharing what they want in men, but there’s this widely-held stereotype that all we want is the so-called “trophy wife.” I don’t agree with that notion.

You see, there’s so much that should go into deciding whom to share your life with — characteristics, in a sense, that stand the test of time.

So, what is it we men want in a woman?

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Rejoice “Divorce”

Sometime we got so busy and tied with life that we negligence the important of each other. We forget how special our spouse, boyfriend or significant others are to us. We forget to be thankful of them for being in our life. We become unappreciated of them.

Reminisce the small details of your love for each other and live them daily without forgetting why you love and got married to the other person at the first place!

Beautiful video with a great message send out to it’s audience!

REAL Women

I love keeping track of cool stuff I like and found them via social media regardless where; such as facebook, youtube, and article via search engine. Here is another one…I thought it was pretty cool.

A clever mom dress her daughter up like real women who live here, before our time. In the small article with picture written by Rossalyn Warren post on Upworthy website was called “See The 5 Kick-Ass Women This Mom Dress Her Daughters As Instead Of A Disney Princes“. The mom dress her daughter up as Susan B. Anthony, Coco Chanel, Amelia Earhart, Helen Keller, Jane Goodall.  The last dress up was super awesome and it did put a smile on my face too just as Rossalyn Warren mentioned in her article.

What I took from the last picture is that, although our daughters may influence by the Disney princesses and barbies, what they needs to values is their self-worthy. The daughters needs more ideal women which is why the mom dress her daughter up as those famous inspiration REAL women before our time. The last picture was a double take of the mom’s daughter with a pin that read “Emma For President 2044” pined on her shirt. It is such a great idea that served as a reminder to the parents to inspire their kids to be themselves and aim for the star.

In addition to that, the mom add each quotes below the dress up picture. Super inspirational quote! Here they are:

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23 Things Every Woman Should Stop Doing

One of the many things I enjoy blogging about is keeping interesting stuff as a blog for self-reminder, later down the road to reflect on or to read it again.

Below you will find me quoted an article from “Huff Post Women;” talking about the important stuffs we women needs to stop doing. I find the article to be refreshing and a self-care reminder to myself. I exceed some of the listed pointers but still working on some; such as learning to say No and stop saying yes to everything or every one; especially knowing that I have very limited time to do other stuff for other people or with them.

It’s good for the soul…Happy Reading!

23 Things Every Woman Should Stop Doing

It is conventional wisdom that we’re our own worst enemies and despite the cliche, the idea rings true. We often drive ourselves insane striving for perfection in our experiences, relationships and selves, and honestly it just becomes exhausting. So here at HuffPost Women we’re issuing a challenge to ourselves — and other women — to stop doing these 23 things. (Of course it’s all easier said than done, but to employ another cliche, if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.)

1. Apologizing all the time. Research has shown that women actually do say “sorry” more often than men. We’re all for taking responsibility when you make a mistake — but constantly apologizing for having your waiter split the check or asking a date to hang out on a different night or telling a friend about your problems, does more harm than good. There’s no need to qualify everything you do. Own your preferences and decisions.

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Married? Any Kids?

How S A D ! ! !

It’s weird and kinda funni that ppl always assume I have kids and either married or divorce; not that it’s a bad thing or anything…lolz. Shoo am I really that OLD? lolz 🙂

A few questions I usually gets at the beginning of a conversation (usually with the opposite gender) will be like: Are you Married? Do you have a kids? When both answer lead to NO, they always seem to be so surprising. A smile will display on their face then the next thing that come out of their mouth will be this “U must be picky. Don’t be too picky and you will find the love of your life.” When others do this, they just release the preacher in me and allow me to make a smart remark to shut them up…lolz.

I hate Hmong stereotype or mentality! Some of them always assume the Hmong women will become babies making machine at a very young age. I hope that ppl will learn to understand there are STILL single women who are in their 20s to 30s that are educated, independent, smart and brave, existed in today society. This type of women are the one every men values, wants but cannot have! :p lolzIn my early 20s, I was so offended by people when they ask me questions or assume me of this matter. But now, I held my head high…response proudly to the matter cause I am the exceptional of the norm. I dnt fall into the norm not because I am a loser and no one wants me. I CHOOSE TO BE THE EXCEPTION; it’s a choice base solely by me and not by others! Just gotta put my two cent into this thought of matter cause someone mention something on my facebook status and am wants to address how often I gets this from people. 🙂

Happy Thursday Everyone! he he he

Center of the Universe

“I start to realize that this man has built himself a life. He has hobbies, real hobbies like cross-country skiing, hiking, reading, video games and more. He’s not afraid to do things by himself either. He has an important job and works hard at it. He’s busy. That’s why he’s not clinging to me. He has things to occupy his mind and time and has had them for years. I’m welcome to join him in these activities too, I notice. But I will never be the center of his universe. I quietly delete my online dating profile so I can’t spy on him anymore.

This guy never asks me to change my plans to do something with him instead. He actually changes his plans on occasion and joins me on my plans instead. I’m finally getting comfortable with myself and doing things on my own. I go on hikes with a local club; I meet up with girlfriends; I go to my exercise classes; I work late when I need to; I get a “Little Sister;” I invite neighbors over for drinks; I make moves to start a friendship with a woman I’ve known a couple of years and who I think is cool; I start thinking a lot about what I want out of life and my future. Not my future with a man but MY future. I’m building a life for myself for the first time in 44 years.

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